Whether you're all-in for cuffing season, celebrating feral girl fall solo, or somewhere in between, these tips and products can help you keep things hot while the temps cool.
It's Time to ~Fall~
in Love With Your Sex Life
Whether you're all-in for cuffing season, celebrating feral girl fall solo, or somewhere in between, these tips and products can help you keep things hot while the temps cool.
If you aren't sure
what turns you on...
Thing to know:
Everyone's sexual journey is unique. And your mind is a safe space for you to explore.
Everyone's sexual journey is unique. And your mind is a safe space for you to explore.
Thing to do:
Ask yourself how certain materials, environments, or scenarios make your body feel. So you can figure out what excites you.
Ask yourself how certain materials, environments, or scenarios make your body feel. So you can figure out what excites you.
If you're looking to
get better at self-love…
Thing to know:
Most people with vulvas need more than just penetration to achieve the big O.
Most people with vulvas need more than just penetration to achieve the big O.
Thing to do:
Try to work some external stimulation into solo time. And see if ethical erotica (read: the kind that's inclusive and empowering) can help get you in the mood.
Try to work some external stimulation into solo time. And see if ethical erotica (read: the kind that's inclusive and empowering) can help get you in the mood.
If you're partnered up and
want to (pumpkin) spice things up…
If you're partnered up and want to (pumpkin) spice things up…
Thing to know:
Spontaneous desires are hot, fast, and (unfortunately) temporary. While responsive desires — which occur after sexy time has already started — tend to last longer.
Spontaneous desires are hot, fast, and (unfortunately) temporary. While responsive desires — which occur after sexy time has already started — tend to last longer.
Thing to do:
Carve out time during the week to get ~in touch~ with one another and stick to it. That way you're not relying on spontaneity alone.
Carve out time during the week to get ~in touch~ with one another and stick to it. That way you're not relying on spontaneity alone.
If you're already
a toy pro…
Thing to know:
Playing to senses like sight and smell can take things up a notch. But so can inhibiting them.
Playing to senses like sight and smell can take things up a notch. But so can inhibiting them.
Thing to do:
Next time you plan on getting it on, try a blindfold and let your body (or your partner's body) guide you.
Next time you plan on getting it on, try a blindfold and let your body (or your partner's body) guide you.
